Common Courtesy

April 24, 2013 I moved from Antioch, CA to Carson City, NV not by choice but I had to do what I had to do. I had demons to deal with and get rid of because of someone in my past help create them. By the end of December 2013 all my demons were gone and I had moved into a room of someone I had know in high school and graduated with. I also worked part time for them going on ships in the Port of Los Angeles and Port of Long Beach to do drug screening.

I learned what kind of person I was living with and I was hoping to find work and eventually be able to buy a car since the only way I could get around in the beginning was by walking, Once I found a job I bought a bicycle. I quit the one job since the software and equipment was from the 20th century. Couple of weeks later I got the job I'm working at now. After several months I saved up enough money to put a down payment and finance the car. The car has needed a lot of repairs but that is what you get when you buy a car that is over 12 years old and over 133,000 miles on it.

In December 2014 I went to visit Storm for a mini-vacation but before that this roommate kept pushing me to do a ship on the way to see Storm. I kept telling her it was a mini-vacation and I only wanted to spend time with Storm. She kept insisting that I do it but the only reason why because she gets part of the money that I earn. I gave in and on the way their the car started to act up. I informed her that the car was acting up but she did not car since I committed to the job. Once I got done with the job I decided to cut up my Transportation Workers Identification Credentials card and my identification card I had for the company I was representing. I sent her an email explaining that this was the last ship I will ever do and made it clear that this was a mini-vacation and did not want to do any her work for her. Once I move back to the Bay Area I will never do a ship and I don't care she doesn't have anyone representing her there. THAT IS HER PROBLEM!!!

April 2015 we had to move out of the house she was renting since the landlord wanted to sell the house. Move from a two story to a one story with half the square footage. It was during the move I realized what she was really like.

She did not ask me to do things, she told me what to do. She never said please and rarely said thank you. Simple common courtesy that I was brought up with and passed it on to my daughter. I don't know if she was taught it but if she did she forgot it completely.

With that in mind, August 31, 2015 I will be moving back to Antioch, CA to be with Storm for good. I'm tired of living here, dealing with the room mate, the weather and very bored being here. There is no way that Storm would move here or want to be here. She still has a son in high school and just recently became a grandmother plus many family members live there. I would never ask her to move here because that would just be very selfish of me and I rather live in the Bay Area than here any day of the week.

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Inner Strength

What I love about my girlfriend is her very positive inner strength, her high self esteem, common sense and smart. She just got her degree in Medical Billing and Coding with an online college and had perfect attendance and a 4.0 in her grades.  She is so positive with her life no matter how bad it gets. She is one of the strongest women I have ever met or been with.

I know that there are BBW's out there that have low self esteem or feel negative about themselves for various reasons. You need to focus on yourself and those who love and care about you. You need to care about yourself, love yourself and try your best not to let negative comments affect you.

I know it is easier said than done. Trying to deal with all the negative and frustrations in life you need to get above it the best you can and prove to all those trying to put you down that you are better than them. I was put down and controlled by someone and allowed it to happen from 2005 to 2010. It took a couple of years to be normal again.

I made a promise to myself to never allow that to happen to me again and when I met my girlfriend, I knew it would never happen again. She always says what is on her mind whether it hurts or not. She does not lie and always truthful. What a change from who I use to be with and it is very refreshing to know that women like my girlfriend actually exist and are real.

This a painting of my girlfriend done by Les Toil who does BBW as Pinup Girls.

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Why Did I Start BBW Friendly

When I started the website in November 1997, I really had no idea what it was going to be.  I knew I wanted it to link to the BBW Friendly chat channel on Webmaster IRC.  I also wanted to make it a dating website but that all changed in 2000.  I officially took over the website and I was tired of the chat channel and it being a dating website.  I decided to change it to a informatioin website.  There were several other websites that had information and were larger but mine was not going to have links to any adult or porn sites.

I tried to be careful with the sites I link to BBW Friendly and I had to constantly monitor because a lot of the sites I was linked to were slowly disappearing.  I got tired of constanly monitoring who I was linked to and let the site go.  In 2003 I changed the background and tried to keep it more current and had banners made and an award made.  Giving award to websites was popular back then just like web rings were.

I let it go after awhile again I just check the links once in a great while.  The website pages were busy and boring but I did not have the desire to change it and just let it go.  This year and month I decided it was time for a change.  As you can see the changes now and I finally was able to change the picture on the BBW Friendly Dating website (www.bbwfriendlydating.com).

I hope you like the changes and if you have any suggestions just let me know and see if it is possible and meets my qualifications to be linked or added to the website.